Set Point, (S), is your state of mind and is said to account for 40% of your overall happiness. You begin life with a set point that is genetically predisposed, you may have more or less tendency toward happiness. You can alter this point with drugs, meditation or cognitive therapy. Drugs are a quick, short-term alteration that have many side effects. Unfortunately drugs is the choice that some people make, I guess because it is an easy quick fix. Taking the time and effort to work through the other methods, meditation and cognitive therapy, will result in a long-term adjustment to your set point.
Meditation is quieting your mind and going inward. It does not have to be a formal sit-down exercise, it could be simply taking the time to yourself, to clear the cob-webs and re-boot. Meditation activates the pre-frontal cortex stimulating the release of naturally occurring brain chemicals. These brain chemicals, dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and opiates have been linked to different aspects of happiness. "No single drug can simultaneously choreograph the coordinated release of all these chemicals." (The Ultimate Happiness Prescription)
Cognitive therapy refers re-programming your brain by changing your limiting beliefs. Start to think and perceive in positive tones. Is the glass half empty or half full? Attack negative thoughts by finding something positive, or just let them go. Believe in yourself, adjust the story in your head to a more positive plot.
Playstation in Bali - Happiness is on everyone's face in Bali! |
My creative expression of Venice Beach, Bali. |
Suffering is the counterpart to happiness, it is part of life. The key is to adapt and find a way back to happiness and not dwell on your suffering. Let go of the "woe is me" attitude as quickly as possible and return to the formula for happiness.
H = 40% S + 10% C + 50% V
"As Darwin said, the most important factor in survival is neither intelligence nor strength, but adaptability."
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